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Money Troubles

There is a long story in today’s NYT which, while somewhat off-topic, illustrates the problematic role of money in a lot of the ART stuff I discuss here.  It’s about the commodification of breast milk.    While the story bears reading, the critical point to understand is that there is an emerging industry–and I do mean industry–built around processing breast milk.    One person calls it “white plasma”–which for me seems to echo the designation of oil as “black gold.”

There are doubtless many reasons why the industrialization of breast milk is disturbing even as its potential to save or enhance the lives of premature infants is clearly beneficial.   I just want to focus on one thing, though, and it has to do with money.

Human breast milk can only be obtained from one source–women.  The question raised in the article–and the one I want to think about here– is whether women should be paid to produce breast milk.   It’s easy for me to see the two sides.  Continue reading

Freezing Eggs and the Perils of Choice

I have a number of comments in moderation at the moment, but before sifting through them I wanted to comment on this story.   I’m sure many of you have already seen it and there has been lots of interesting commentary, too.

It seems that some tech companies–Apple and Facebook–are now offering to pay to have female employees freeze their eggs.    This is as part of an array of fertility related health benefits.   I’ve written about egg freezing in the past.    This is a relatively new technology and we really haven’t seen how it will play out yet.  But I remain somewhat skeptical about the offer made by these “generous” employers.   (We should all bear in mind that what motivates them is not generosity but rather the desire to maintain a competitive edge.  Apparently other industries–like big law firms–may be following right behind in providing this benefit.)

The problem being solved here  is that it seems fairly clear that “young ” eggs (say those that are 20-30 years old) are most likely to produce healthy babies. Continue reading

An Observation About Fertility, Reproduction and Gender Difference

This is a digression so I’ll keep it short.  

Some days I just think the world has gone slightly mad.   I’m feeling that way today as I read this.   New legislation in Arizona (that has actually passed one chamber of the legislature and is moving along in the other!) allows employers to ask for proof that women who are using contraceptives are doing so for non-contraceptive reasons.   It seems that it is possible that failure to produce such proof could provide justification for firing a woman.   In other words, if a woman is using contraceptives as contraceptives an employer have grounds to fire her.   There is apparently no parallel provision for men who use contraceptives.   Continue reading

Single Mothers and Varieties of Fatherlessness

If a woman is a single mother some might say that her child is fatherless.  I think this is often the equation drawn in the media and I think that it warrants some scrutiny.  This is brought to mind by the confluence of a couple of different things.

First, there is the discussion of single-motherhood I began here last week with that article from the NYT magazine.   In the course of that, I learned of another blog, O Solo Mama, which focuses on being a single-mother.  And that got me thinking a bit more about women who choose to raise children on their own.

Then there is a class I taught.   We discussed a reading by Martha Fineman called Images of Mothers in Poverty Discourse,  which you can find at 1991 Duke Law Journal 274.  (Yes, it is a cite to a law review article.  I think it might be my first.   And it may not be as readily available as some thing I can link to, but it’s very good if you can lay your hands on it.)   One point of the reading (written in 1991, but applicable still today) is that we attribute much harm to single-mother families.   And the cure we often seek is to assign the single-mother family a man to be the “missing” father.     Alternative solutions (good child-care, flexible workplaces, adequate health care, general parental support services) are rarely considered.   Continue reading

Commercial Surrogacy–More Questions, Some Answers?

This takes up from yesterday’s post, so you’d best start there.

I want to start by making explicit one point that I think has been (should have been, anyway) implicit.   I have no problem with the surrogate receiving money.   Indeed, it would trouble me greatly to set aside this one activity which is uniquely female and then say it could not be the subject of compensation.  That simply seems like one more instance of devaluing women’s labor (forgive me the pun).

The question for me is assuming you can give the surrogate money, what is the money for?   What, exactly, are you buying?    I’ve discussed this before, but I think I can come at it from a different angle here.

I’ll start on solid ground.  I think we all pretty well agree you are not buying her parental rights.    That amounts to buying a child and we do not (as yet) buy and sell children.

Now there are two ways you can assert you are not buying a child even as you give the surrogate money.   One is to say that she is not a mother.  If she’s not a mother, you cannot possibly be buying her parental rights, because she doesn’t have any parental rights to sell.  That’s the reasoning of commercial surrogacy generally.  You then characterize the money as payment for her services in caring for the child.

The other rationale is to say that she is a mother and that you are paying expenses of the pregnancy.  It’s a bit unclear to me what you get in return for paying the expenses.   But this is the rationale for payment in what is called “compassionate surrogacy” in the UK.

A common feature of both of these rationales is that the surrogate’s parental status doesn’t change as a result of the monetary transaction.   She either starts out as a mother and remains one (compassionate or altruistic surrogacy) or she never becomes a mother at all (commercial surrogacy ).

I’ve talked about the critical difference between the two surrogacy models before.   In compassionate surrogacy, the surrogate is a legal parent of the child.  She retains the right to change her mind about delivering the child to the intended parent(s).   In the US version of commercial surrogacy, the surrogate has no right to change her mind–indeed, there is nothing she can change her mind about, since she is never understood to be the mother of the child.  Only under the latter conditions that surrogacy can exist as a significant for-profit industry.

It seems very likely to me that if you set the two models side-by-side, prospective parents will pick the commercial surrogacy model every time.   It’s better for them in that it relieves them of a good deal of uncertainty.   (Not all uncertainty, of course.   The outcome of pregnancy is always uncertain, even if the surrogate is bound.)   Given the path that leads many heterosexual couples to surrogacy–long experience of unsuccessful attempts at child-bearing–relief from uncertainty may be very highly valued.

I find the altruistic model far more appealing and there are reasons why society as a whole might prefer that model, individual preferences notwithstanding.  Altruistic surrogacy invites a better dynamic between the parties. It allows the surrogate to receive money (which I assume will increase the number of women willing to be surrogates) but at the same time emphasizes the altruistic nature of the endeavor.  it seems to me far less likely to be exploitative.  The question I am left with is whether it is really workable.   It does mean that the person or people intending to be parents must live with the possibility that the surrogate will change her mind.   In short, it requires a great deal of trust on the part of the people hoping to become parents.

Commercial Surrogacy Again, Thinking Harder

There’s been an interesting exchange over on an earlier post that I wanted to move into the main section.    There are good points raised there that bear consideration.

I generally find surrogacy troubling.   At the same time I recognize its importance.  For some people–women who cannot carry a pregnancy themselves and gay men, for example–it may be the only path to creating a genetically-related child.

It’s easy to say that people should not be so hung up on the genetics and should just adopt children.  Perhaps in a better world we would all feel and act that way.    But the reality is that we do not all feel that way, and I have elsewhere argued that the law ought to deal with the reality of people’s lives.   Beside that, surrogacy is very likely here to stay.

All of this leads me to want to think harder about what exactly it is that bothers me about surrogacy.  Continue reading

The Price of Commercial Surrogacy

My last substantive post looked at the effect of commercial surrogacy on the women involved in a surrogacy arrangement.   (The two women I’m thinking of would be the surrogate herself and the woman hoping to become the mother of a child the surrogate might bear.)   Put briefly, it seems to me that commercial surrogacy increases the likelihood of unproductive rivalry between the two women.

The contrast to consider, I think, is between surrogacy in the US (where commercial surrogacy thrives) and that in nations where commercial surrogacy is prohibited (the UK and Canada, say).   I’m think an exploration of this would be quite useful.   And I’ll do what I can in the coming days.

Before setting out on that task, however, I wanted to offer an observation about US law.   As I’ve said any number of times, it varies considerably state to state.   Many states (my own, Washington, among them) does not permit commercial surrogacy. Continue reading