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A Timely Essay on How DNA Might Matter

Here’s an essay that I think is a nice complement to the last couple of posts.   It’s from the NYT Motherlode blog and is part of a series by Amy Klein.    In this one (published a week ago) she considers whether using a donor egg would matter to her.

There are several things about the essay that I think are noteworthy given the recent discussions here.   Most obviously, this is an instance of an individual making precisely the sort of calculation I think one needs to make–weighing the pros and cons before proceeding with something obviously serious.

You can also see consideration of both sides of the balance.  Continue reading

A Bit More On Who Raises You Plus The Other Side of the Balance

I know there’s a lot of discussion in the comments to the last post, and of course I’m quite happy about that.   Discussion is good, right?   But there’s a point where the comments become cluttered and it’s hard (for me, coming late anyway) to follow it all.  So I wanted to try a new post, restating some but then moving along.

At the outset, I want to highlight what I think is the critical question here:  “Is being raised by people who are not your genetic parents necessarily bad?”  To me the inclusion of the word “necessarily” is critical.

If you leave out “necessarily” and just ask “Is being raised by people who are not your genetic parents bad?” then I think the answer has to be sometimes yes and sometimes no.   Continue reading

More About Florida Case–And A Similar Nevada Opinion

I wanted to add a couple more notes about the Florida opinion I wrote about a couple of days ago.     And while I’m doing that, there’s a Nevada opinion from just a little while back (October 3) that I wanted to tie in here.  It’s virtually a mirror image of the FL case.

First, two more points about the FL case–what I think of as the good and the bad, really.    And these are taking a step away to get a little bit of a longer view.

The good:   From what I can tell (and I do not have any access to the facts) the court decided this case in a way that I think reflects the reality of the family life that gave rise to it.   There are many indications that both women functioned as parents to this child during the first two years of the child’s life.  Continue reading

News From Florida–Lesbian Mother/Egg Donor Must Have Rights

I’m interrupting myself (though I really want to get back to “social infertility” and what to think about it) because there is an interesting and important new case out of Florida.  You can read the opinion (though it is long) and I’m sure in time there will be press, too.   (I wrote about this case when it was decided by the lower court and you might want to read that, too. )

I want to offer some initial thoughts here, though think it quite possible I will find that I need to revise them as I think further.  The case covers a lot of ground and might have some broad implications–or at least suggest some broader arguments.

The facts are pretty simple.   DMT and TMH were lesbians in a long-term committed relationship.  They wanted to raise a child together.   TMH provided an egg.   It was fertilized in vitro and the resulting pre-embryo was transferred to DMT’s uterus, which means DMT was pregnant with/gave birth to the child.   Continue reading

Sorting Pregnant Women: Four Types, Which Get Grouped Together?

Someone (ki sarita, in fact) raised an excellent question in an early comment on the last post:   Why would you call Monica Schissel a surrogate when she is a pregnant woman and she is genetically related to the fetus she carries?  There is some discussion of this in the last post, but I’ve been thinking about it more generally.   This leads me to some observations that might be useful or, failing that, at least interesting.

It seems to me you can think about pregnant women as falling into one of four categories.  Here they are:

A:   Intending to be parent and genetically related to embryo

B   Intending to be parent and NOT genetically related to embryo

C   NOT intending to parent and genetically related to embryo

D.  NOT intending to parent and NOT genetically related to embryo. Continue reading

A New Form Of Extended Family?

I know I’ve been a very bad blog host, and I hope you all understand why–see the last post if you must.  It’s just a busy time.  But since it makes me fret when I don’t post I thought I’d put something quick up this evening before the second-to-last leg of the family event marathon.  (This is son-to-college.  Next (and last) is daughter-starts-high-school.)

Anyway, this story caught my eye today.   Liam James Burke was born sometime earlier this year.  An ordinary baby save for one thing:   He was born after an embryo created 19 years ago was transferred to Kelly Burke’s uterus.   That’s a remarkably long time for a frozen embryo to be preserved and then successfully transferred.   Then again, perhaps we don’t really know how long they might remain viable.

The embryos had originally been created for an Oregon couple.  Continue reading

How The Law of Parentage Got To Be Such A Mess

I’ve been thinking, while not able to be on-line, about why this area of the law is as it is–a total mess, full of inconsistencies and contradictions.   Wouldn’t it be nice if it were tidy and neat, as many areas of the law actually are?

There’s no simple answer to the “why” question, of course.   Why would there be a simple answer?   But I do have some ideas.

There have always been parents, of course, by which I mean two things:  First, that men and women have engaged in sexual activities with resulting birth of genetic offspring and second, that the young creatures require care and someone has provided that care,  at least to some of those offspring.   Continue reading

Edging Closer to Grow-Your-Own Gametes

I try to keep one eye on scientific developments that, while still in early stages, promise to complicate parenthood even further.   I wrote about one line of research in the fall.   This research opens to door to creating gametes (that would eggs and sperm) from ordinary cells, or at least from non-gametes.  This is an outgrowth of research aimed at creating new specialized cells generally.

As the earlier post makes clear (I hope) the idea of creating specialized cells has wide application.   The example I used (taken from research) involved creating new retinal cells which would be useful for treatment for certain retinal disorders.

But the implications of the research for reproductive technology are apparent.  Continue reading

One Surrogate Mother’s Story

My classes ended today and I’m hoping to turn over a new leaf.  That would mean (among other things) getting more posts up and keeping up with comments.   There’s so much piled up on my desk, though, it’s hard to know where to start.  On the theory that it is more important to just start, though, I choose this article, which someone sent to me last week.

This was published in The Guardian.   It is just what the title suggests–a diary (brief) of a woman who served as a surrogate.  She was what I would call an altruistic surrogate.  What I mean by that is that money played no part in her decision.  She offered herself as a surrogate because her brother and sister-in-law were desperate to have a child and had spent a great deal of time, toil and treasure trying to do so.  Continue reading

On the Radio and in the Magazines–The Grayest Generation

There are a couple of tabs that have been open on my computer for a very long time as I’ve tried to find the time to produce a post worthy of them.   There’s this–an article by Judith Shulevitz that appeared in the New Republic–and then this–and interview by Terry Gross with Shulevitz.   I came across the second first because I’m a huge Terry gross fan and try to listen to Fresh Air regularly.   If you do the gym or you’re out for a walk or whatever, you should really try to take the time to listen.

Shulevitz makes a number of points that a worthy of discussion  here and that’s really what’s hung me up.  It’s the picking and choosing.  But time is so hard to find these days that I’m just going to plunge ahead here, accepting that I will probably skip as much of interest as I’ll comment on.   And worst of all, by now I’m working from distant memory of the interview which has become mingled with my own thoughts about it.   All of which is by way of a caveat or an apology, but here goes.   In this post I’ll make two points leaving a third for later.

Towards the beginning Shulevitz notes that most of the solid information about the results of various forms of ART are from studies outside the US.  Continue reading